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Arjan’s Long Journey

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  Arjan’s Long Journey In Sharjah, I came to know Uncle Arjan as more than a family friend — he became a quiet guide and a steady presence in my life. His stories hinted at a past shaped by the Indian Partition, when a young Arjan left Sialkot with his family and faced the upheaval of a divided homeland. Behind his calm dignity was a journey of loss, resilience, and renewal. This chapter follows that path, and the bond I formed with him over the years, revealing how history shaped the man I knew and admired. Denzil Jayasinghe 4 min read · 2 hours ago 1 W hen my uncle Arjan Dev Ralli, spoke of Sialkot, he spoke not of a place on a map but of a world that had once belonged to him. He was nineteen years old in the summer of 1947. At that age, a young man usually dreams of the future. Arjan’s future seemed certain enough. His family owned eighteen acres of farmland outside Sialkot. There were farming sheds, livestock, orchards, and a substantial six-bedroom brick house that had shelter...

Vijitha

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  Vijitha Denzil Jayasinghe 4 min read · 22 hours ago T here are some people who enter our lives with great noise and leave behind only faint memories. Then there are those rare souls whose presence is so gentle, so unassuming, that it takes years to understand how deeply they touched us. Vijitha Nanayakkara was one of those souls. In the Dalugama of our youth, when the roads were narrower and the future seemed impossibly distant, Vijitha moved through life with a quiet grace that set him apart from the rest of us. He was the eldest son in his family, reserved by nature, never one to demand attention. Yet beneath that calm exterior lived a heart capable of remarkable tenderness. As teenagers, we found our way to each other almost without knowing how it had happened. There was no dramatic declaration, no grand gesture. Instead, our affection grew through shared afternoons, lingering conversations, and moments that seemed ordinary at the time but would later become precious treasures...

The Housesitting Weekend

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The Housesitting Weekend A quiet weekend in a borrowed Dalugama house becomes an enduring memory of youth, freedom, and a woman who chose to live entirely on her own terms before time scattered us all. Denzil Jayasinghe 8 min read · 1 day ago L ucky’s house sat on Old Kandy Road, set back from the road behind a low fence and a metal gate that squeaked when you pushed it. It was larger than most houses in Dalugama. Three bedrooms, a proper sitting room, louver windows, a kitchen with actual counter space. Lucky’s father had done well for himself, though nobody talked about how exactly he rented it. Lucky’s family had gone to the hill country for the week. Kandy, probably. Maybe Nuwara Eliya. He needed someone to watch the house and he asked Shirley, which was the sensible thing to do. Nobody in the village was going to break into a house that Shirley Fonseka was guarding. Shirley asked me to join him. I said yes without asking too many questions. I was nineteen. An empty bungalow for a ...