Waiting at the Bus Stand
Waiting at the Bus Stand: Denzil Jayasinghe 3 min read · Just now Nostalgia, Friendship, and the Past That Keeps Walking In N ostalgia, I have learned, does not creep up on you like a thief. It arrives like the monsoon — sudden, soaking, and impossible to ignore. I will be going about my day in Sydney, a grandfather now, and suddenly I am back on that metal bar at the Colombo bus stand, book in hand, watching Nimal approach from the other side with his straight hair and that necklace with a tiger’s tooth of his. Or I am eighteen again, squeezed into a narrow bed with Ajith, the smell of my mother’s cooking drifting through the house while we dream of brighter tomorrows. The past does not ask permission. It simply walks in and makes itself at home. And here is the strange thing: when these memories come, they do not feel like ghosts. They feel solid, physical, more real somehow than the present moment. You can almost feel the heat of the Colombo afternoon, hear the roar of the cro...