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Rupees, Dirhams, and Growing Up

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Rupees, Dirhams, and Growing Up From Borrowing to Becoming Denzil Jayasinghe 4 min read · 17 hours ago W hichever way I looked at it, my salary refused to behave itself. By the last two weeks of every month, it would shrink into nothingness, leaving me wandering — somewhat sheepishly — into my mother’s room. She never asked unnecessary questions; she simply opened her purse and handed me a fifty rupees, sometimes two. In those years, she was my permanent bank, my monthly lender of hope. And she lent with the amused certainty of someone who knew I would be back again in a fortnight, pockets empty, promises well-rehearsed. It had all begun rather innocently with small borrowings of ten rupees. But like so many habits picked up in youth, the amounts grew with alarming ease. By month’s end, I would owe her one or two hundred, and be left with perhaps a hundred and fifty to carry on with my worldly ambitions. Then, when I turned eighteen, my father handed me a savings passbook. Seven hundre...

The Circle of Friends: A Ceylon Boyhood

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The Circle of Friends: A Ceylon Boyhood Stories from a Time of Simple Joys Denzil Jayasinghe 13 min read · Just now Rohan and the Day of Humiliation T here are moments in childhood that seal friendships forever. Mine with Rohan was sealed on a terrible day when we were both thirteen years old, sitting in Brother Felix’s classroom. Rohan and I had grown up together from the age of five — same school, same class, same teachers. We’d received our first holy communion together, kneeling side by side in our white shirts and pressed shorts. We’d played in the same dusty schoolyards, shared the same dreams, faced the same fears. Rohan had a reputation as the brave one. Nobody dared pick on any boy in our class, knowing that fearless Rohan would come to their defence. He stood against injustice with a passion that sometimes got him into trouble. He believed in fairness above all else — it didn’t matter if you were big or small, rich or poor, smart or struggling. Rohan treated everyone the same...