Helpers
Helpers A tribute to the helpers of the past — in times gone by in Sri Lanka and Dubai I have mixed feelings about the helpers who helped my family and me in Sri Lanka and Dubai. Back in the day, helpers were called ‘servants’. Now, I find that term offensive and derogatory. I am ashamed of that past. It was common in more affluent middle or upper-class homes to have helpers. Many of them were children themselves. In that embarrassing past, social inequity and imbalance allowed a privileged section of society to have poor children, men and women as helpers. This is a tribute to the ‘helpers’ who helped my family and me. They were beautiful souls, helpless due to institutional poverty in a backwater country. Unfortunately, and regrettably, I was part of that system. My childhood memories begin with Gunapala , a boy hired to look after me. He was my constant companion and carer as early as I could remember. He stood guard for me, watching me for safety. Gunapala was a child himself,...