Mother Mary Catherine
Mother Mary Catherine Denzil Jayasinghe 5 min read · Just now In trying to understand my other mother — my aunt, my mother’s younger sister, Mary Catherine Jayawardane — I often felt as though I had wandered into a little maze of my own making. There were twists and turns everywhere, each one asking me to pause and look at her life from a different angle. What had hurt her? What had shaped her? Why did she choose some paths so boldly and leave others untouched? She was so different from my own mother, Mary Susan, who slipped away quietly in her sleep at seventy-eight. I knew my mother for only a brief portion of my life, for I left home when she was just forty-two — not to another town or district, but far beyond her sight, to another country. And even before that, I had been away for four long years in a Christian Brothers’ boarding school, learning the loneliness of dormitories and the comfort of letters from home. Trying to look at Mary Catherine without the colours of my complicate...