The Year We Stopped Being Afraid
The Year We Stopped Being Afraid Denzil Jayasinghe 4 min read · Just now In 1965, I was ten years old and in Class 5A. This was St, Anthony’s College, run by Christian Brothers some seven kilometers north of Colombo, Sri Lanka, then Ceylon. Until then, our classrooms had belonged almost entirely to women. The teachers were familiar, gentle and predictable. Then came Mr Suraweera. He was a large, burly man with a short temper and a reputation that reached us before he did. Even as fourth-graders, we had begun to look towards the next year with a quiet dread. Children, however, have a remarkable ability to adjust to almost anything. We adjusted to Mr Suraweera. His punishments were swift and, to us, endless. Boys were made to stand or kneel for hours. His reprimands were often accompanied by words we had never heard from our teachers before. When his temper broke, a slap across the ear or a heavy blow on the head was not unusual. Anything within reach — a blackboard duster, a piece...