First Times
First times A big brother helps to the joys of life Denzil Jayasinghe 6 min read · Aug 22, 2022 1 C yril ayya was a good friend to me from my teen years. Ayya means big brother in Lankan, undertoned with respect and loyalty. I had a great affinity with Cyril, who cared for my well-being. Four years older than me, Cyril understood the world around us better. The youngsters rallied around him. Early on, I figured that he never took advantage of his friends. He’d often call out my occasional brash behaviour, advising me to tone down my cocksure actions. I knew that he did it with good intent. There were times when I was in trouble , he bravely came to my rescue. Like when I was waylaid by a mobster or taking me home when I was pissed drunk . There was a huge trust bank between me and dependable Cyril. He lived in our neighbourhood, and we hung out together, me often reaching out for his counsel. Now, let us not get into too much detail. When I was...